Before moving to university, everybody has their thoughts and perspectives about how their first year is going to 'pan out'. I had visions of my first year being completely different to what I have encountered. Definitely not in a bad way though, as I wouldn't change it for the world! But I thought that I would share with you what I learnt throughout my first year of uni, and maybe you could take a little bit of advice from this too!
All that lovely new kitchen-ware you bought?...
You will not use it. Not in a bad way, because you can save it for when you move into your house for the second year. When I moved into halls last September I brought plates, bowls, cutlery, mugs and everything else you can imagine. Except, Victoria Hall in Manchester supplied us with everything we needed without informing us first. So there was all of my nice new kitchen-ware sat in the cupboard, not being touched. However, even though I barely touched it, it still managed to get lost and when I was packing up everything of mine from the kitchen area to take into the new house, I noticed how many of my pans didn't have lids and how only 3/9 of my shot glasses actually made it.
What dignity?...
Okay so that is a bit of an exaggeration. You will have dignity - don't you worry - but I am focusing on how you look. It will get to the point at university where you really don't give a stuff about what you look like. I would stroll to the Spar in my dressing gown, and makeup from the previous night. It's just how I began to roll, and you will notice that everybody else around you is exactly the same.
You're lovely and quiet?...
If you make friends with the type of people I made friends with, you will definitely not see your quiet side very often. This isn't a bad thing, as I had so much fun hiding my quiet side and showing my true colours. I began to feel like I could be myself around complete strangers, who became my best friends.
Oh THAT reading list...
Reading list? Nope. Every lecturer always bangs on about how you need to buy certain books for the course you're studying, because they will be needed and extremely beneficial. Beneficial maybe, but certainly not needed. I study Philosophy, and my lecturers would give us text book photocopies to take away with us, regarding what we had to learn. Don't get me wrong, I bought a few books off my own back to annotate, but I didn't need them. I just thought it would be easier than me scribbling my life away on photocopies.
Who said your diet would consist of pasta and soup?
This myth is one of the biggest lies I have heard during university. Everyone always says "you looking forward to living like a student?", or "get ready for your diet of pasta and soup!". All vast lies which shouldn't be listened to. Me and my friends would often cook together, and the meals we would make up were amazing! One time, me and Minnie from Through Minnie's Eyes even had steak. Now come on, if you find the right shop e.g. Aldi, Lidl etc. you can eat meals which are half decent and enjoyable!
Night's out will become your new favourite hobby...
So when you go home and your parents ask "you found any new hobbies that you like?", maybe not mentioning that you attend all of the student nights throughout the week apart from a Sunday is a good idea. No matter how hard you try and stop this vicious cycle, you will always find yourself at the local student night, sipping away on £2 doubles pretending to be Kanye West. And yes. You WILL enjoy it.
So there is just a few of the things that I learnt throughout my first year of university. I will write a follow-up post on this, but for now here is a few to get your heads around.
What're you most looking forward to at university?
Hahaa love it! x
ReplyDeleteOnly the truth girl! Hahahaha x
DeleteYou can spend hundreds on the recommended reads so it's good to know these aren't always required! Maybe better to buy them as and when needed (if at all!) x
ReplyDeleteDefinitely! I found that waiting until I was involved with my course a lot more to buy my books worked out a lot better!
DeleteJess x
So true Jess :D Great blog sweetheart :D
ReplyDeleteCat xx
Thank you very much!
DeleteJess x x
I think (to make a vague and sweeping sexist statement) that girls differ to boys when it comes to eating at uni. Most of the guys I knew at uni lived on the aforementioned pasta and soup, as well as pizza!
ReplyDeleteA lot of the friends (boys) I lived around were exactly the same! One boy never cooked a meal his whole time within the first year, but then others cooked up the best meals. It just depends I reckon!
DeleteJess x
This is so true! However I wasn't lucky enough to be supplied kitchen stuff! xx
ReplyDeleteI didn't expect for it to be supplied either which is why I went and bought my own!
DeleteJess x x